Is There Really Safe Sex?

By Nina HumpreyAdvertising Editor Sex! You know it, some of you have it, and many love it! But are you safe? Many people think they know what safe sex is. Here is the dictionary definition: “SEX, –Noun. Sexual activities in which precautions have been taken, as by the use of a condom, to minimize the chances of spreading or contracting a sexually transmitted disease.”Yes, I also almost fell asleep reading the dictionary version, but it’s good to know. Though, we all know it is much more than that, including many scary parts, even when consensual.So, do condoms works? Not always. You know when you were in high school and the teacher made you put a condom on a banana? Well, that might have taught how to put it on, but not how it works. Now, I am not going to try to be your sex Ed teacher, but here are some interesting facts and truths about “safe sex.”According to the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S.:*Condoms are 98% effective when used correctly.*The average failure rate for condoms is 12%: reflective of people who do not use them properly or do not use them every time they have intercourse.There are many different precautions available, including spermicidals for men (but do not apply them to condoms because they can burn a hole through them). Also, there are many styles of birth control. That is the woman’s decision and she must talk with her doctors before any steps are taken. Of course, there is one way to avoid sexual disease and pregnancy. Just don’t have sex.Whatever you decide, just makes sure you’re comfortable. After all, safe sex really just means respecting, caring, and being thoughtful of your partner. So, take the necessary precautions, make sure both you and your partner are ready. Having sex may be fun but is a big responsibility and a serious one.